Change, as a rule, is best taken up by getting to know oneself (better). Don't say now: »Know myself already«. You don't. We never do. We never can. Because things around us keep changing. Bringing with them new requirements. And, by the way, isn't it fun to watch and learn and say: »Hey! Wouldn't have thought it possible that this might cause me trouble. Still does.« Isn't it boring – to know everything right away? Each world? Each person? Each situation? Each conversation? Each need? Each goal? Each difficulty? Each solution? Each reaction? Each them? Each »us«?

Much to learn? Yes.
Too much? Perhaps.
Is there an alternative? No.